October 17, 2025: Bee’s Big Move - Our New Barn Adventure
🐝 Bee’s Big Move
Hi friends, it’s Bee here, and I’ve got some big news straight from the horse’s mouth!
I’ve officially moved to Equine Obsession (Facebook) in Argyle, Texas, and let me tell you, this place is something else. From the moment they came to pick me up and chauffeur me to my new home (I felt like equine royalty, if I’m honest), I knew I was in good hands.
We’re talking over 100 acres of scenic, rideable land with multiple arenas, two round pens, and even a hot walker for keeping us fit. They feed us so well here I might have to actually use that hot walker to keep my girlish figure. They’ve thought of everything here, even a special spot just for farrier visits and hoof care. You know I like to keep my feet well manicured.
The pastures here are spacious and beautifully maintained, with fresh, clean water troughs (no mystery algae seasoning!) and run-in sheds where we can take cover from rain, wind, or the occasional Texas thunderstorm. Everything feels open, calm, and well thought out.
Right now, I’m living solo in my very own VIP pasture, right next door to the mare pasture. Management says it’s to help us “get acquainted.” Between you and me, it’s probably to make sure nobody starts any drama right out of the gate. Mares can be, well, opinionated. Some call it “mare-ish,” others call it “night-mare-ish.” I call it personality. For now, we’re exchanging side-eyes across the fence and pretending we’re not curious. Give it a few days, and we’ll be swapping gossip over the hay pile like old friends.
Day 1 was quite an introduction! Mom walked me around the mare pasture so I could meet the girls. I sniffed two, they sniffed me, and we all shrugged like, “Okay, cool.” The boys, however, were very interested in the new gal on the block. Mom wouldn’t let me stop, so I strutted my best mare strut while they followed me down the length of their pasture, snorting and showing off until I disappeared into the shade for a well-earned graze.
Mare drama to the left, boy trouble to the right, and wide-open grass ahead. I’ll take the open field, please.
After all that attention, I was a little antsy on the way back, then Alpha Mare herself came to greet me at the fence. We touched noses, and yes, I may have shown her just a touch of attitude. Gotta establish boundaries early, right?
The best part of my setup is that between my paddock and the mare pasture is a mama and her beautiful white foal with bright blue eyes. They’re my neigh-bors for now, and watching that little one bounce around makes me smile. I’d love to show you a picture, but Mom says she needs to get approval from the other moms first. Mom rules, you know.
Mom gave me two rinses on Day 1 because I was pacing a bit, exploring every corner of my new digs. I just had to make sure I didn’t miss anything.
Two rinses, one eye-roll, and a whole lot of side-eye later… but admit it, I look fabulous. Mud incoming in 3…2…1. 🫧
Now, the barn stalls here are something special. Each one has thick, cushy rubber mats for healthy feet and is bedded with inches and inches of soft shavings. And the best part? If you poop, someone practically appears out of thin air to pick it up. (I’ve tested this theory. Impressive response time.) There’s no stall open for me just yet, but we’re on the waiting list, and rumor has it, it’s worth the wait.
There’s so much thought put into every corner here. The barn stays cool in the summer thanks to Porta-Cool fans that keep temps below the 90s, and there’s even a built-in bug spray system that keeps flies and pests away, pure bliss for both horses and humans. The herds are turned out overnight during the hot months, then during the warmer part of the day in winter. There are air-conditioned tack rooms that stay spotless and dust-free, separate restrooms for ladies and gents, and even a fully stocked lounge with drinks and snacks. The price here covers everything, hay, grain, shavings, mucking, and care, so all we have to think about is riding and enjoying barn life.
And that’s not all. They’re putting in a brand-new obstacle course (which sounds like my kind of fun) and sprucing up an additional arena on a recently acquired piece of land. That means there will soon be three arenas to choose from. Not that I’m bragging, but I do plan to shine in at least one of them.
And don’t forget the new “Mare Mansion” coming soon, an elegant new barn designed just for mares, with roomy stalls, great airflow, and a calm environment for us ladies. You could say I’m counting the days until I get my suite upgrade.
I couldn’t be happier with this big move. The people are kind, the care is detailed, and the carrots are fresh. It already feels like home.
Now I’ll let my person, Christina, tell you what to consider if you’re thinking about a new barn, too.
Love, 🐴 Bee
P.S. My summer sores are just about gone! Mom says they’re healing beautifully, and I say that’s one less reason to fuss at the wash rack.
Finding the Right Barn for You and Your Horse
When your horse starts writing her own introduction, you know she’s proud of her new home—and rightly so. After much thought, I realized that Bee and I were ready for a change that better reflected our evolving priorities: safety, philosophy of care, and transparent communication.
As a brand-new horse owner, I didn’t fully know what I wanted—or even needed—out of a barn when Bee first came home. I’ve learned so much along the way, and I’m grateful for every experience that helped shape those priorities. The convenience of being directly across the street from our training center, Rock Solid Performance Horses with Miss Ashley Holland, was incredible. It gave us an easy start, a solid foundation, and so many lessons I’ll carry forward.
Like many horse owners, I value peace of mind—knowing Bee is well cared for, comfortable, and safe even when I can’t be there. Over time, I began to see how much those three priorities matter to me personally. Every barn has its own rhythm, routine, and definition of “good care,” and what works beautifully for one horse or owner might not be the perfect fit for another.
So we made the leap, and it’s been such a positive one. Our move to Equine Obsession reminded me that barns, like people, operate from different philosophies. Some lean toward a “tough-love, keep-it-simple” style, while others (like me) appreciate a structured approach with open communication and consistent oversight. Neither is right or wrong—it’s all about finding the balance that makes both horse and owner feel at home.
Start by Asking Yourself These Questions
Before you visit barns, take time to think honestly about what matters most to you and your horse. Clarity makes it easier to find the right fit and avoid surprises later.
How much do I want to be involved in daily care?
What balance of stall time and turnout works best for my horse?
How structured do I want feeding, worming, and pasture rotation to be?
What’s my budget—and what does that price actually include?
How often are stalls cleaned and water troughs checked?
What kind of fencing, footing, and shelter make me feel comfortable?
What is the plan for introducing new horses to a herd?
How is inclement weather handled?
What type of amenities matter to me—arenas, trails, round pens, or something else?
How often is the farrier or vet on-site?
Who oversees daily horse checks, what’s included in the check, and what happens if something seems off?
And maybe the most important one:
How much communication do I want from barn management?
Every barn handles communication differently. Some take a “no news is good news” approach, while others are proactive about updates, pricing, and care details. Over time, I’ve learned that transparency—knowing what full-service care includes, what’s extra, and how concerns are handled—makes all the difference in feeling confident your horse is being looked after the way you expect.
These questions help narrow down barns that will feel like home for both you and your horse.
The Takeaway
Choosing a barn isn’t just about the amenities—it’s about alignment. You’re selecting the people and environment that will care for your horse when you’re not there.
For Bee and me, Equine Obsession offers peace of mind, safety, and community. It’s more than a barn—it’s a partnership built on trust. We can’t wait to share our adventures as we settle in, meet the new herd, and maybe even test out that obstacle course.